Ben Affleck thinks relationship with J. Lo was bad for his career

By ANI
Friday, July 10, 2009

WASHINGTON - Ben Affleck has confessed that when he was in a relationship with Jennifer Lopez he had lost control over his life, which was eventually bad for his career.

“I was no longer in control of my life. I thought I wanted certain things, but I didn’t. I got lost. I felt suffocated, miserable and gross. I should never have gone down that route or got sucked in to all the publicity,” Contactmusic quoted him as saying.

The actor revealed that he had decided to move away from limelight as his career was being damaged.

He said: “I was typecast as myself. Too many people weren’t getting past what they read about me. That was damaging. I can tell from experience it’s bad for you, and bad for your career. So I took a break, went away for a while and let things calm down.”

However, the ‘Chasing Amy’ star is now happily married to actress Jennifer Garner and is father of two daughters, three-year-old Violet and six-month-old Seraphina.

He added: “Work has taken a back seat. My job is not as important as it was. Saying that having a family changed my life is a cliche. But it’s true - it re-arranged my life and made me see clearly.”

Affleck dated ‘Waiting for tonight’ hitmaker in 2002 after starring together in the film ‘Gigli’.

They got engaged but parted ways shortly before their scheduled wedding in 2004. (ANI)

Discussion

Rebecca
July 12, 2009: 8:09 pm

I always liked Ben Affleck and never understood why he was dating J-Hoe (was never a fan of hers,) but this is BS. That relationship happened eons ago and both are married with children, and have moved on. At least she has. Why the heck would he speak out against her now? What’s the point? She didn’t put a gun to his head to change or be part of the media circus! Why doesn’t he admit that he fell in love with the punane and would do somersaults for her at the time! Always thought you were a good guy and a gentleman Affleck. Obviously, you are like a majority of guys out there not worth the dirt on the bottom of your shoe.


Marilyn
July 11, 2009: 3:43 am

Move on Ben. Why are you still talking about her. It seems you are obsessed with JLO. I guess you are too board with your ugly wife!

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