Madonna Planned ‘fling’ With Luz
By WENNMonday, September 28, 2009
MADONNA didn’t mind the age gap between her and boyfriend JESUS LUZ when they first dated - because she thought the pair would just have a casual fling.
The pop star met the Brazilian in December (08) at a photoshoot for W magazine, in which they posed for a series of provocative shots weeks before her divorce from filmmaker Guy Ritchie was finalised.
According to her biographer Randy Taraborrelli, her relationship with the 22 year old is so serious, she plans to marry him in a Kabbalah commitment ceremony within the next few months.
The Material Girl wasn’t convinced their union would last when they began dating - but when she started to fall in love with the model she feared the public’s reaction to their 29-year age gap.
A friend of the singer’s tells Britain’s Hello! magazine, “When Madonna and Jesus were just dating - back when she thought it was a fling - she was okay with it (the age gap). But when she realised she was starting to have feelings for him, she started to become self-conscious about the relationship. ‘I don’t want my family to think I’m having a midlife crisis,’ she told me. ‘And my friends, too. I don’t want people to think I have lost my mind.’
“As her feelings for Jesus intensified, she began to accept that, yes, maybe he was a consequence of a midlife crisis - and so what? Or, as she put it to me, ‘I think I deserve a midlife crisis after all I’ve been through with the divorce from Guy. I deserve to have a good time, too. And I deserve someone hot, like Jesus.”